WHAT "TRULY" IS LOVE TRILOGY>>Job Doesn't Define You- PART 2

PART 2- A JOB DOESN'T DEFINE A PERSON

The social interactions we have, impact what tendencies that get rubbed off and you pick up from colleagues, friends and family. We get influenced to form a certain mode of thinking which impacts the choices we make from the clothes we wear, how we look, way we talk and act in a certain way to 'fit in' or 'adapt' to the 'professional' or 'artistic' environment we are in. It's easy to lose yourself as a person and some values you used to aspire to, after a prolonged period of time. It's difficult to stay 'true' to ourselves because of time and other factors that affect our lives to continue our hobbies and passions we once loved, unless we pursue them fully in a career. It's easy to forget the things we once used to identify ourselves with because we keep moving onto the next chapter in our lives... Which is why people don't encourage getting married young because it's natural to grow apart. Especially in the way how our society is designed that we live in.

Everyone KEEPS growing apart because we pursue different interests and get influenced in different ways. This causes us to develop as a person in different ways because of our different modes of thinking. Therefore, we meet others who are similar to us because they made similar choices in life, at the time, THUS ending up in the same place as you. And it's easy and in human nature to have an opinion and judge others who are not in the same 'circle of friends or work' due to having different modes of thinking as you.

Although,  a job or career in some way makes up a certain part of our lives that is sometimes looked down upon in society, 'a job doesn't define a person'. There is more to a person than you think. Even someone who seems very open have aspects of their life they don't share. We all do, because we can't share EVERY single MOMENT or DETAIL of our lives because there is a that lot goes on with everyone. They are still the same person at the end of the day, REGARDLESS of the title they hold. They are still your companion, brother, sister, relative and this doesn't change. Put yourself in 'their shoes' (WITHOUT BEING A PUSHOVER cause boundaries are important and we should take care of ourselves before anyone else).. but try see things from their perspective. There's a reason behind why everyone acts a certain way and takes time to develop an understanding to a person. There are two plants. Both are receive the same amount of sunlight, water and nutrients, but one grows into a Sunflower and one grows into a Mutant Venus fly trap. Both beautiful in it's own way. Much like siblings, both grow up in the same environment, go through some of the same experiences but still grow up differently. Every person plays a vital role in society. Every role is different but is EQUALLY as important, should be acknowledged and shouldn't be looked down upon, even though our world makes it seem that way because of pay rates, position of status and a certain hierarchy of success.

PART 3 -LOVE IS A CHOICE -COMING SOON...

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