People grow apart... This is why marriage is so difficult. Not that I'd know, personally. I've never come that close to serious commitment, but from observation... Divorce rates have increased nowadays. It's no longer a lifetime promise because people realise there is an OPTION to leave. The idea of relationships and marriage have changed over the years. The 'inner animal' instinct in humans has us seeking out for more in a partner or looking for it elsewhere. This is partially where cheating comes in. Which leads to both parties having trust and relationship issues with either trusting themselves or learning to trust another again. This also impacts others affected by these circumstances to have these similar types of issues.
Even though the 'two' share their vows, which might've been taken seriously and meant something at the time. It's easy to get sidetracked and forget that MOMENT and FEELING. This is because it's so easy to get influenced in our world today. When we hear something more often from the media or people you are constantly surrounded by, at work or at home environment... we become programmed or brainwashed to think this 'one' way in our society. This is because when you see or hear something constantly or more often, the concept becomes more believable and we only see things 'that way' or from that perspective.
Let's flashback to when we were younger and we watch a commercial of the newest tamagotchi. Or now, when the iPhone3000 ad comes out. Or online, the beauty, fashion gurus on youtube with the newest clothing and makeup. And going out with friends for drinks, lunch and shopping. Technically you don't need this excess material wealth and possessions. But sometimes (not always, cause it's fine to want these items to use for creative expression and other reasons etc...) we can't help feeling the want to give into the temptation and feel pressured to buy this latest trend or a find replacement to fill a void. It's the start of falling for an individual because it seems new and interesting... It's the first rush of alcohol, when you feel that buzz and excitement. Or when the newest play station is released. Once u get the iPhone7, you neglect the iPod touch. This is only a TEMPORARY sensation... This becomes the same continuous cycle. The iPhone7 gets replaced by the iPhone30. Sooner or later the hype dies down.
PART 2 -A JOB DOESN'T DEFINE A PERSON -COMING SOON...
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