There are people using drugs or EXCESSIVE alcohol as an ESCAPISM method from reality. I think it's problematic for our society and sad that there are people out there that feel this way that there is no other option in the first place. These are some of the people I grew up with. The same kids who played in the playground and in some ways still are... At times it's good to go with the flow and other times question our life decisions, no matter how horrible they may be, and stay aware of everything. It's understandable why people make different types of decisions but if it becomes a serious threat or danger to ourselves or anyone it's NOT okay. Today it's not a boy meets girl story... it's a boy meets girl, stays together then runs away, comes back and more things happen, things got so complicated so quickly....life is tough kind of story...
There has to be some level of compatibility. Meet someone like you who shares the same values. It's easy to like more than one person at the same time or find them attractive. It's human nature, we are mammals. But love is a choice. It's climbing. Whether it being romantic, friendship or family relationship wise. It involves dedication, compromise and hard work. Once we choose to stay loyal, commit through the good and bad times. Having fights and arguments isn't necessarily a bad thing. We do with the ones you love the most. Like siblings. They are so annoying and they have no respect for privacy and wear all your clothes WITHOUT asking... ughhhh....but the love you have for them DOESN'T change or it SHOULDN'T. Everyone's stupid, an asshole or awkward in different ways to different extents. Forgiveness is a vitial step to create peace. The important thing is to learn from our mistakes... you know, and probably make new ones and then learn from those and in the end become a better person hopefully...
It's easy to diverge life paths because of how our society functions, again going back to getting easily influenced, changing interests and it being natural to grow apart. But love is a choice. It's ACCEPTING the person for who they are and remembering them from when you first met them. They are still the same person whatever happens, who may just be going through a hard time. Remember the parts of them that stay the same. Have something that connects you, whether it's the same types of food, hobbies, humour or love for animals. You can choose to love unconditionally without expecting anything in return and choose to care, choose to trust, choose to be honest and choose to be supportive. It doesn't have to be every second of everyday, (personally I strongly value my own space to grow), but it is POSSIBLE to maintain and keep ours bonds intact.
-Niki :)<3xx
P.S. Not that I'm throwing any shade at anyone buying the latest iPhone or makeup, if u want it and that makes you happy, get it. I like shopping, it's fun!!!
P.P.S. Same goes with drinking, drink to moderation and etc.. make RESPONSIBLE choices for yourselves and etc...
P.P.S.S. If you really don't like someone and don't have much in common with them, you don't have to force yourselves to like them. You don't have to like everyone and not everyone has to like you. Sounds kinda obvious but it's always good to be reminded sometimes..
P.P.S. Same goes with drinking, drink to moderation and etc.. make RESPONSIBLE choices for yourselves and etc...
P.P.S.S. If you really don't like someone and don't have much in common with them, you don't have to force yourselves to like them. You don't have to like everyone and not everyone has to like you. Sounds kinda obvious but it's always good to be reminded sometimes..
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